spirits?

[reannaruby99]

My father - in - law died 4-8-08. He was a Big part of our family. He was to meet his wife in heaven. ... Nope... I believe he is still in "his" house. I use to complain of him banging the cabnits in the kitchen.......guess what..... it is almost 4:30 am he won't stop.
today.....yes.........he is still here......I think....OMG there he goes again!..........Am I over emotional ...I doubt it...............this crap has been going on since he died.....In the kitchen..........I cant sleep. This isn't the first time......... I am now mad. I cant sleep because of this. I can't live here no more if I can't fix this. This is not the only time................there it goes again...................my husband........(his dad)..........has been havin this problem also. I yell in my house.........."Tell me what you want?".....................nothing...........I can smell him. I feel him. This is not past experience......help us.....this is now....... NEVER HAVE I HAD AN EXPERIENCE LIKE THIS..............KITCHEN IS STILL ACTIVE.........

[koto]

Thank you for sharing. I honestly have no advice for you right now but Shawn might, IDK Also it sounds to me like a poltergiest(forgive my spelling).

[shawn]

reannaruby99,

First off where are you from? If you tell me I can contact a local paranormal group that may be able to help you. This is something I am by far no expert in, however it is obvious you have paranormal activity. It sounds to me like he is trying to get someone to do something, or that he has something to say to one of you. Something unfinished. I understand that had called out to him asking what he wants and he does not answer. My advice to you is this. If you do not have one, get one they are cheap. A 19 dollar hand held recorder that takes those mini tapes, or you can get a more expensive digital one. Go where the activity is happening the most and out loud ask him what he wants. Walk through the entire house and ask the same thing. I would start by telling him you know who he is, and then ask what he wants. You may just be surprised as to what you come across when you play back the tape. I have a ghost box I use in which you can actually talk to a spirit live. Try this and see what is said ok? Let me know what you think.